Haan Main Galat
We all are wrong in some manner or the other. We all are villain in someone's life. Bhishm Pitamah (Mahabharat) was held responsible by Amba for her misfortune. Surpankha (Ramayan) couldn't possibly have forgiven Laxman with any amount of reason, justification, or even revenge. Some pains are unsoothable, some desires unsatiable.
Instead of denying our wrongs and defending ourselves under the veil of self-righteousness - whereby we look for ways to blame others for everything that is wrong with ourselves - we should instead accept the wrongs of ourselves and others as inevitable natural course. Instead of fearing being wrong, we should accept wrong as normal, and even necessary for human evolution and growth.
Moral upliftment is important for positive evolution of mankind. But, falling down is alright too, albeit unavoidable for people who are adventurous and open for new experiences. When moving in an uncharted territory, we are bound to encounter unexpected problems and challenges of moral dilemmas.
Instead of fighting the feeling and taking too heavy a burden on our small brain, we should let it flow. We should learn from experiences and be ready for more new adventures.
Never do we get to know ourselves as deeply as we do when we encounter moral dilemmas. When our conscience suggests something else, and our rational mind conditioned by society suggests something other - we evolve and discover new clarity about what our needs in life truly are - and in the process we get closer to our purpose, from which we had been distracted too far.
Morality shouldn't be a complicated thing. I have a simple rule of morality - and it is utilitarian in nature - anything that is intended to produce maximum happiness for maximum number of people is moral.
Collective pleasure is the purpose of life - pleasure of all humans, animals, environment, earth - for healthy, playful, sustainable continuance of life for all.
Don't be half-alive. Live fully, with arms spread out and legs jumping from the ground.
Life is the purpose of life. Explore new. Keep going, Keep growing.