On The Middle
Came across a song cover by Megan Nicole today while taking a late night walk on terrace. The Middle - Zedd, Maren Morris & Grey. The song presents a melodious rendition of a frustration that resonates with many - why can't their significant others resolve their interpersonal conflicts by meeting in "the middle". To be able to meet in the middle requires not only to walk equal distances towards each other, but also to mutually see and acknowledge the mutual efforts and compromises. Only when everyone involved is able to see and appreciate the efforts of the other (and remember them), can they come to see their agreement as "the middle". For "the middle" to be honoured and maintained, it's important to minimise the chances of resentment that could arise from compromises which could later seem regrettable. Efforts should be made to reach the middle in a manner that is non-coercive, and done out of love for each other rather than a fear of losing...